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🇬🇧 Cultural nomadism - a lifestyle

We can move from a place to another for various reasons. One of them is to know better other cultures, to become a global citizen. Other is ...

Monday, 30 December 2019

🇬🇧 Work-life balance

Work life balance is a way to manage our lives that allows us to have balance among various spheres of life, like family, friends, work and leisure. I separate in four because sometimes we can enjoy some time alone, to listen to our own inner voice, so, it’s not all time to be shared with others.

Sometimes we make a lot of effort to achieve a certain position in life or, more often, in career, and then instead of enjoying we work much more because we have new responsibilities and new challenges.

Society helps us to think we must struggle all the time. Should we? Don’t we deserve a pair of dinners with our beloved ones along the week? Don’t we deserve to enjoy the results of our efforts? Don’t we deserve some time for ourselves? I only can answer for myself. Yes, I do. And I deserve outstanding services.

Since I started exercising this balance life is funnier, there’s much more to enjoy and simpler than I used to imagine.

Do you exercise this or prefer to struggle being a workaholic?



Nycka, the nomad 


Monday, 23 December 2019

🇬🇧 Gifted hands: the Ben Carson Story

Another biography I watched during the weekend was “Gifted Hands: the Ben Carson Story”. I really appreciate biographies. This one was special because it shows something I treasure. Part of the transformation in Ben’s life was performed through the interest in art and culture. Books and museums were there to guide him to a completely different world. Like in the famous movie “To sir, with love”, where a teacher (Sidnei Poitier) guides a class of poor students to a new world including a visit to a museum. Ben’s mother also emphasise the importance to wear clothing with quality, another thing I value. Unfortunately, many brands nowadays are going in another direction, decreasing quality.

I won’t say racism doesn’t exist, but I’m sure the life of any person is much better if the individual chooses to enlarge ones universe through art, culture, travels and investing on quality.

Ben Carson is an example that reality can change.

Although I don’t like images of surgeries, this movie is tolerable regarding this kind of scene. Watch and enjoy the inspiration, then share your thoughts with me.



Nycka, the nomad 


🇬🇧 Mary Shelley

These days I watched “Mary Shelley”. I strongly recommend it. I never read some biography about her. I never read Frankenstein. But the movie is captivating. The colours used in clothes and decoration help to create an atmosphere. After to watch it I am more interested about the writer and her ideas.

Douglas Booth as the poet Shelley help us to feel like Mary, enchanted by his beauty (Booth is maybe the more handsome young man in cinema) and his intellect. Dakota Fanning looks charming and innocent. In a moment we discover she is or want to be different, when she shows she accepts open relationships as normal. Later we see she suffers with this choice that was her mother’s voice guiding her life, not her own voice.

For me, her father telling her to go to Scotland and find her own voice is the central point of this story. The cause of everything.

Movies like this are great to feel grateful for living in another scenario, where women have voice. We’re so accustomed to a life not very different from men in various points of view that we forget how much women struggled in the past. One century ago most women couldn’t vote in large part of the world.

I don’t tag myself as feminist. But I appreciate respect, as anyone else.

Based on the movie I questioned myself about relationships and how to manage them. I think to dialogue is the best thing. To keep updating the information. Because one day we can feel perfectly comfortable with a choice and then something happens that change our mind about that. Relationships are dynamic as ourselves. What do you think?



Nycka, the nomad 


Monday, 16 December 2019

🇬🇧 Bad experiences travelling

To travel by myself has some risks. When I plan my trips I have some standards in mind and sometimes to keep them I try some hotels from some group I had experienced before. But this is not a guarantee of quality, unfortunately. That’s why I am risking a bit more in small hotels sometimes. Curiously most of my bad experiences are linked to the experience in the hotel. All the rest usually is good enough.

For me, hotels must offer privacy (no thin walls, please!); a well trained team (once I was sleeping completely naked and someone tried to enter the room, maybe to clean it. Fortunately the door had a lock that I used before to sleep); comfort (a queen size bed and an excellent shower are the minimum. Something to keep a nice temperature inside the room is also necessary); security (a place to keep precious things like jewels and the laptop without the risk to be seen by the staff); and currently be pet friendly with nylon webs on the windows for my cat don’t escape, and a staff trained not to enter the room if signed the cat is inside (my cat hates humans), obviously offering the door signs for this. Free, quick and safe internet is obligatory! And TV with many different channels available are good although I usually don’t spend a lot of time in front of the TV (once I was in a hotel where the TV had options, but the only channel everyone could watch was the one played on the reception room. Don’t do this, please!). Activities inside the hotel are welcome. A great restaurant, swimming pool, a bar with excellent cocktails, are good things even in trips for businesses. More than that is highly recommended if the goal is leisure or if the city doesn’t have interesting attractions. Yes, the poorest the options in the city are, the better must be a hotel to create a nice experience for the traveler. 

My worst travel experiences wasn’t planned by me. They were simply horrible because they were much bellow my standards. All the trips paid by myself were done according to my budget, sometimes very limited. Lately, much more comfortable.

In one of these experiences I went to Porto Seguro, a marvellous brazilian beach, although the structure is poor for a famous destination, and I traveled with a group, including some family members (who have standards inferior to mine). The trip started in Montes Claros and we went by bus. The bus broke twice in the road before to cross the frontier between Minas Gerais and Bahia, and this was the beginning of a horrible experience. My will was to stop in the first city and take another bus back home, but I was an adolescent and my family didn’t allow that. When we arrived, we had a lot of people in the same room at the small hotel we stayed. Everybody from the group, but it was weird anyway. I acquainted with some girls in this group and we went to a show at night at the beach, but although I liked the main band, who played axé music (brazilian regional music from Bahia, usually played during the carnival in Salvador), the other band who opened the gig played.., U2 songs! Ok, I like U2, but both musical styles are too different. Outside the time on the beach during the day, when I could have some time alone, and the seafood, the trip was terrible.

Among the times I traveled with my mother, only one was good because I chose the hotel. She normally goes to the cheapest options and that time I found through the internet one that was much better and just a bit more expensive. She felt as if she was in a five stars hotel, and compared to those she used to stay it was really marvellous, although it was a very simple hotel.

But twice I had bad experiences planned by myself. In one of them, I went to Belo Horizonte for businesses. I chose a hotel close to the places I wanted to go, although my aunt invited me to stay with my cousin, her daughter, who is a medical doctor in the city and lives in a very beautiful house. The aunt would travel and the cousin lived too far from where I needed to go, so, I spent some money to stay in a hotel instead of spending with cabs. The hotel was too simple. There was one from the same group of the one I mentioned in the previous paragraph, where my mother felt as if a five stars hotel, close to that point and I don’t know why I didn’t discovered it before, because chances are it would be better. But although the one I unfortunately chose was weird, I survived, as I only needed a place to sleep and take a shower and spent all day outside solving business questions, and part of the night I enjoyed restaurants and malls in the neighbourhood.

The other bad experience was once I went to Sao Paulo to the Fashion Week, and went to a hotel close to the place. This is a case of hotel I experienced the same brand before and this time was disappointing. The room seemed an apartment. A nice hall with a TV, a place to work with the laptop, a comfortable couch. Then the bedroom with a big double bed, the wardrobe, and an enormous wall of transparent glass besides the bed! At night the room was charmingly lighted by the moon. There was no big buildings close to the hotel from that side, so I could have a nice view from my bed. But when I entered the bathroom, the first deception. It was too small. Specially the place under the shower. I am thin and I couldn’t move in that small space that had no more than 80cm from a side to the other. The other deception was when I noticed I could hear the other guests from my room! The walls were too thin!

Ah, twice I noticed the hotels were less clean than I deserved. Once I was with my mother, it was her choice and the worst nightmare I could have. The TV was dirty and the bathroom was even worse. Fortunately it was just to sleep that night and travel in the morning, but it was horrible anyway. The other I was in Sao Paulo, and I chose a charming hotel close to Oscar Freire street, but I noticed long hair under the pillows. The trip wasn’t bad, but I never returned to this hotel, nor to any other I had bad experiences.

I had some good experiences I didn’t return, but these cases for not having the opportunity. Two of them in Sao Paulo, because I go there often but I prefer hotels close to the places I want to go. So, these two are much better than the one I stay more often but they are not good considering the distance between them and my interests in the city.



Nycka, the nomad 


Sunday, 15 December 2019

🇬🇧 Innovation and change

This blog talks about a lot of different things. I’m an innovator. My mind is always changing and not in a negative way. It changes evolving, leaving the old and uninteresting behind or embracing the new without giving up old passions. In my social media the same happens, you know. One day I write about style, the next I write about soccer, another day I write about trips or cats or anything else.

My main interests don’t change. My biggest passions don’t change. The way I deal with them can change. One day I can be satisfied with what the market offers and one month later my standards are higher. I’m okay with that.

I think the only passion I have and I talk about this much more in social media than here is football (soccer). I really love soccer. I mean, I’m not the kind of person who pays attention to the name of the positions. I appreciate that soccer played to win. When even defensive players take the responsibility to change a game in favour of their team. I am really boring with those defensive players who are able only to defend, and with coaches who, after their teams lose some advantage (or gaining a small advantage they feel comfortable) they decide to play with defensive strategies. No! To win like 1x0 is a very small victory, no matter how big is the advantage of the team in the championship!

I like games that are played to win with the best possible scores because I am competitive. I’m pleased to be recognised as an outstanding professional. I don’t take time trying to be part of official competitions in my field, as I use to choose my preferred team and pay attention only to its games, not taking care of what competitors are doing, and I like to observe my evolution comparing to myself, and sometimes I am delighted to see I am working better than others. Being an innovator, what others are doing is much less important than this fight against my limits. That’s how I appreciate professional sports, in special soccer, as the rules are easy for me to understand, also because I used to play it when I was younger.



Nycka, the nomad 


Tuesday, 10 December 2019

🇬🇧 The Miss Universe 2019

I manage a page about short haired women on Facebook and I’m always looking for inspiration. Yesterday I saw the new Miss Universe is a black woman from South Africa, called Zozibini Tunzi. A very beautiful woman. But I noticed something sad in her discourse.
She said she lives in a world where women like herself, with her skin colour and the texture of her hair aren’t considered beautiful. Here’s a video with this speech.
Am I living in Mars? Because in my world there are lots of black beautiful women like Lupita Nyong’o, Rihanna, Beyoncé and fabulous Naomi Campbell to mention a few.
When I was a child I didn’t see myself represented by beautiful celebrities. And I know this was because I didn’t see my own beauty. Could Miss Tunzi feel the same and this is the reason she said that? Because the only other explanation I see for that would be she lives in a place without internet, cinema, radio and television!!! A place focused in itself, not sharing news from the rest of the world. But I believe South Africa is not that primitive place.
She’s not even the first black woman to be a Miss Universe.
That’s why I think this speech was so sad. Because it talks a lot of her self image.
What about yours?


Nycka, the nomad

Sunday, 1 December 2019

🇬🇧 Getting a cat used to life indoors

I just read a tweet asking what to do with a cat who lives partially outdoors to get used to a new life completely indoors. I have an experience with this and I’ll share it.

My Iduna was adopted when she was 8. She was living in a small house where she only entered to eat and sleep. She was free to go outdoors. I live in an apartment with nylon webs in all windows and the balcony to protect my cats. How do you call these protective webs in your country guys? I’m brazilian and I didn’t discover the name for these webs in english nor in italian. You can see the nylon web and Iduna on my Instagram.

Well, Iduna arrived in this new environment where she couldn’t go out for fun. And she spent a few days meowing in the balcony at night, very sad. But I gave her a lot of love and helped her to feel comfortable although she didn’t appreciate the two cats and a dog I had that time. In a few days she didn’t meow in the balcony anymore. Some time later she started to sleep in my lap while I was meditating. This was her favourite place. When she was in my lap any of her brothers could get close to us and she was extremely calm.

Although Iduna never became really friendly to her brothers I believe to have two cats or more is better as they’ll have another companion to have fun, not depending on the human staff to entertain them. As a plus, you can help to diminish the number of abandoned cats keeping them indoors and having as much as you can deal with and afford.

Cats have strong personalities but they adapt easily to a new life when they feel loved and cherished.

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Nycka, the Nomad 


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