Nycka, the Nomad ©

When will this fad for inclusion in fashion stop? Guys, it's no use. Most people don't know how to choose what suits them, nor are they really interested in knowing. I worked for years with style consultancy and many people, even knowing it, did not seek professional guidance. The best the fashion industry can do is let these people dress poorly. No one will stop buying clothes because they don't have dwarf models, pregnant models, fat models, amputees, transsexuals and everything else you can imagine in campaigns, and as there is much more than that, brands will never represent all possible profiles. The vast majority of people don't have style and never will. This inclusion fad only alienates the public that has style and is interested in clothes with a different design, because we don't want to be like the many people who don't have style and never will. Style requires self-awareness. And things like being able to see an outfit on the runway or in the sto...

Allowing yourself to be photographed naked is an act of self-love. And also intimacy with you and self-acceptance. You don't need to have a perfect body, because the perfect body is different in everyone's mind. What you consider imperfection can be very attractive to some people. And your vision of perfection may seem like an aberration to someone else. When you observe real people, of different physical types and perceive the beauty in each one of them, you are able to see yours. When you don't see your beauty, maybe the photographer's point of view is able to reveal it. But to know the photographer's point of view you need to accept yourself and allow yourself to live the experience of discovering your beauty through the lenses of a professional. When you are intimate with your body, you appreciate it and respect it. Some cultures and some people sexualise nudity. They have a moral code that nudity is only accepted in a sexual context, or while bathing. But e...

Nobody is an island. We all depend on each other and because this network of collaboration exists, humanity persists in the world until today. Not everyone knows how to help someone without the person asking for help. Not everyone is comfortable asking for help. This text has several ideas for you to contribute to improving the day of other people, close or not, without much effort. The following suggestions cover a variety of contexts. Some can even be used to help strangers, while most are about helping people you know, like colleagues, friends, your partner, artists and self employed professionals you follow on the internet, etc. Avoid invalidating people's feelings. If the person fought with her boyfriend or hates her mother, for example, she certainly has reasons for that and invalidating what she feels, saying that every mother loves her children or that her boyfriend did what he did because he loves her are NOT ways of to help. It's ways of being inconvenient and pat...