🇬🇧 You can do it better

Some time ago someone asked me if I had already proved some client was wrong. I do this often, as it’s part of my job to show the best options for each client. All my clients know they’re doing something wrong or not as good as they could do, regarding personal style. In this matter, there are not rules useful for everybody. But there are rules about what is the best for you individually. And I know these rules.

One example of someone doing things wrong was a beautiful client I had, a young woman, married with one little child. She used to think she was fat. And used to dress like magazines and blogs recommend fat people to do: covering her body with large clothes. The truth is she have big breasts but she wasn’t really fat.

After to get acquainted with her and her closet, I told her the new clothing would be more fitted, not large. She hated the idea. Obviously! She had created an idea she was fat. She wasn’t but she didn’t see herself as I saw. And probably as her husband saw. So, my job from that moment on was to prove she could wear other kind of clothing. And I did so. I chose clothes, underwear and accessories to make her look sexy and powerful. To take advantage of the qualities of her appearance. Hey, girl, you’re hot and you must treasure this!

I searched the options alone and went with her to shop most of the clothing. Her profession needed formal clothes, and this was great, as we could explore tailored clothes, perfect for curvy women like herself. She was shocked with the prices of underwear as the ones she had were very cheap. As it was everything planned based on the budget we agreed previously, this part was easy to convince her to be calm. There were one dress she didn’t want to try. I insisted telling her to try first and complain later, because it was fabulous to look more professional and it designed her curves perfectly. Then she tried and decided to include it among the ones we shopped.

After this I traveled for some courses and jobs in other states and found one more dress perfect for her. I called her talking about it and she trusted me enough to buy it. Sent me the money and I did it.

Some weeks later she sent me an email thanking me for having insisted in that first dress she didn’t want to try. She had worn it at work and everybody was enchanted. She didn’t buy everything I suggested, but the final result was awesome.

As this woman, many other men and women are limited, seeing themselves in a way far distant from the beauties they really are. Do you need to be abandoned by your beloved one before to convince yourself you can look better? Are you in the comfort zone as you wear as all yours friends? You can have style. Style put you on advantage in life and career. I can do this for you. If you believe you deserve it.

To rebuild your personal style is the greatest thing you can do to strengthen your self-esteem and achieve bigger goals.

Nycka, the nomad

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