🇬🇧 Being classy

Let’s think a bit about what a classy person is or what qualities we need to be really classy. Some people think about classy as being kind to everyone, even if there’s the need to pretend or lie to achieve this goal. I think this is a rude way to think about what a classy person is.

Classy is more about being authentic without being rude. It’s about cultivate the critical sense and be passionated by art and culture. Once I read a quote said to be from Chanel that said some people are so miserable the only thing they have is money. I agree with that. Really rich (and classy) people are constantly desiring the best of everything, are open minded, passionate about art and culture and available to discuss different points of view. Classy people don’t need to pretend as their personal style helps them to attract more people who respect their choice of questioning the status quo as a way to discover more about themselves and about the world. 

Classy people are proud of who they are. They cultivate their dreams changing them into goals, and changing their goals into results. Classy people are comfortable in their own skin but never tired of improving, professionally, personally and spiritually.

Why did I say to pretend is rude? Because only rude people are not prepared face the truth(s). Classy people are aware most of the facts of life can be seen by different points of view and, so, are prepared to listen the truths of others. Rude people believe there is only one right and one wrong for anything, so, they believe others must be wrong for them to be right.

Classy people are not perfect, but they are closer to be so than anyone else.

Nycka, the nomad